Cancer and Mother

My mom and dad have been getting their will done...

Every time she talks about the will she starts talking about R.

Apparently she said dad wrote R an email about them having cancer.

I told R and G about the time my mom told a renter of hers that she had cancer so he wouldn't yell at her. This was before she found out that a spot on her chest was, indeed, cancerous, sort of like David's cancer that he got on his back... She said it isn't Basal Cell Cancer, so I think it must be Squamous Cancer Cells because it also is not melanoma.

Anyway, they might think it is a trick.

But I haven't told mom that I told them about that incident with the renter.

Anyway now she wants to coach me on what I should say to them, and wants me to throw in stuff like 'you never know' and 'we could die from really bad cancer' and crap like that. She went on to say how R only listens to G because she probably threatens to leave him if he tries to make contact with my parents and how evil that is.

But of course she doesn't remember all the 'evil' stuff she said or did to G. Who else could make it painful enough to have nightmares when she comes to visit you? My mother.

I told her not to coach me on what to say.

I put my foot down.

Anyway, for reasons that seem logical to me, I am the Executor of the will.  For now...